FAQs

When considering therapy, there are various practical questions that come up. In my view, these questions deserve time and consideration. On this page, I have compiled some of the questions I am most frequently asked about the practical side of therapy so that you can browse at your own pace as you consider what would feel right for you.

You are welcome to reach out with any additional inquiries or for further clarification.

Getting started

Questions about how to start therapy and therapist-client fit.

  • At this time, I am not available for new clients because my practice is full.

    I will be re-evaluating this in September 2026 and updating my website at that time.

    You are welcome to contact me with questions and inquiries. Kindly note that I will be on summer break, so I will not be responding to any new inquiries until I return in August. (Updated 20 June 2026).

  • Yes. I provide a free, 20-minute introductory phone call for new clients. This is an informal, pressure-free chat for us to connect and see if we are a good fit for working together.

  • These calls are introductory and informal. There is no obligation to share more about yourself than you want to, or to commit to anything beyond the call. On the call, you can:

    • Share what you're looking for: You can share a brief overview of what is bringing you to therapy, on your own terms.

    • Ask me questions: Feel free to ask about my approach, my experience with specific issues, or how scheduling works.

    • Check the vibe: Use your own judgement to see if I feel like someone you can imagine working with.

    My goal is to answer your questions as straightforwardly as possible and provide a non-pressuring environment to help you find the right therapist for you, whether that is me or someone else.

  • You can request a free introductory call or an initial session by contacting me via WhatsApp or email. I respond to all messages within 1 to 2 business days. Please visit my contact page for details.

  • I am available during daytime hours during the weekdays, with most session times before 4:00 PM and occasional early evening availability.

    To ensure the sustainability of my work, I take regular breaks throughout the year which typically align with school holidays.

  • A standard therapy session with me is 60 minutes.

    In order to accommodate different needs and preferences, I also offer 75 minute and 90 minute sessions.

  • My current therapy session rates are $1,500 HKD for 60 minutes, $1,750 HKD for 75 minutes, and $2,000 HKD for 90 minutes.

  • I provide individual therapy for adults (18+) navigating the complex effects of trauma, chronic stress, anxiety, depression, and chronic pain. As an LGBTQ+ affirming therapist, I frequently work with queer individuals looking to explore or deepen their identity. My clients are Hong Kong locals, expatriates, and those who feel culturally “in between”. Typically, the people who find their way to my practice are feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and/or disconnected from themselves, and are ready to gently explore and shift the patterns that no longer serve them.

  • To build a steady rhythm and establish comfort in our working relationship, I usually recommend starting with weekly or biweekly (every two weeks) sessions. For clients navigating acute stress or wanting to do deeper trauma work, I can also facilitate twice-weekly sessions when clinically appropriate.

    As therapy progresses, the frequency can evolve naturally. This might mean shifting to less frequent sessions or checking in on an as-needed basis for ongoing support.

    I check in regularly about our scheduling rhythm, and I am always collaborative and flexible if you want to adjust your therapy routine.

  • I offer both in-person and online (virtual) therapy sessions, and the choice is completely yours.

    • In-Person Therapy: Conveniently located at my quiet, private office centrally located in Sheung Wan, Hong Kong (just a short walk from the Central and Sheung Wan MTRs).

    • Online Therapy: Conducted via Zoom, allowing you to access therapy from home in Hong Kong or while overseas.

  • Yes, everything shared in therapy is kept strictly confidential. There are some very specific limitations to confidentiality (such as risk of harm to yourself or others, child protection, and court orders). These exceptions are always provided clearly in writing and discussed openly during our first session so that you are fully informed.

  • If you decide you would like to try working together, we will find a time that works for a first session. I can make the booking for you, or you are welcome to book online. Before the first session, I will send you a brief, digital consent form to read and sign. This covers things like confidentiality and cancellation policies.

About me as a therapist

Questions about me as a practitioner and some of the professional background I bring to my work.

  • I am a fully qualified psychotherapist holding a Master’s degree in Counselling Psychology.

    Because the therapy profession is not currently regulated by law in Hong Kong, I believe it is vital to provide complete transparency about my training and credentials. I choose to voluntarily hold myself to strict international and local professional standards. My qualifications include:

    • Advanced Academic Training: A 2.5-year graduate degree from an accredited Canadian institution, including an intensive, supervised 500+ hour clinical practicum.

    • Professional Memberships: I am an active member of the Hong Kong Society of Counselling and Psychology (HKSCP), the Hong Kong Professional Counselling Association (HKPCA), and the EMDR Association of Hong Kong.

    • Specialized Expertise: Extensive, advanced training in trauma-informed care and relational trauma treatment.

    Operating under these professional bodies means my practice strictly abides by established codes of ethics, supervision guidelines, and continuing education requirements. You can read my full list of professional credentials and certifications by visiting the About Me page and scrolling to the bottom.

  • Yes, I am deeply committed to both regular personal therapy and clinical supervision.

    I believe in having a true depth of lived experience in the exact therapeutic modalities I practice. By engaging in my own extensive and depth-oriented personal therapy, I ensure that I remain grounded, self-aware, and emotionally present for my clients. Additionally, I attend clinical supervision twice a month for professional case consultation. This ongoing support allows me to continuously sharpen my clinical skills and maintain the highest ethical and professional standards on behalf of my clients’ well-being.

  • My practice exists as a natural extension of my personal values, professional strengths, and my own journey with healing. Having committed significant time in the client’s seat working through my own past, I hold a deep reverence for the therapy process.

    Combined with my professional training and everything I have learned from witnessing my clients’ stories, I felt a strong calling to build a practice rooted in non-pathologizing, non-blaming, and humanizing care. This philosophy grounds me daily, ensuring that when you come to sessions, you are met with absolute respect and a warm, steady, predictable presence.

  • In sessions, I bring a steady, warm, and compassionate presence. I pay close attention to not only the conversation, but the underlying emotional energy of the room, shifting the pace and providing containment to best support clients in the moment. Because client autonomy is central to my practice, I pay attention to power dynamics and prioritize emotional safety.

    I often bring lightness, humour, and even a bit of fun to therapy when appropriate! I do my best to model a genuine expression of myself while maintaining professional boundaries. My hope is that with time, the people I meet with begin to feel permission to be themselves as well.

About my approach to therapy

Questions about what therapy looks like, which evidence-based modalities are used, and which values and beliefs influence my approach.

  • I am an integrative therapist, which means I pull from several advanced, evidence-based modalities rather than sticking rigidly to one single framework.

    My work is entirely guided by attunement to your unique needs, capacity, and nervous system. I have completed additional specialized training in:

    • Trauma Processing: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Attachment-Focused EMDR (AF-EMDR)

    • Parts Work & Self-Acceptance: Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    • Meaning-Making, Systemic Issues, & Identity: Narrative Therapy

    • Complex & Relational Trauma: The Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM)

    • Mind-Body Symptoms & Chronic Pain: Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT)

    • Mindfulness & Emotional Regulation: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

  • Most often, I work with individuals experiencing the ongoing effects of chronic, complex, or repeated trauma—especially those who have been exposed to environments, contexts, or relationships that repeatedly compromised their sense of safety.

    My primary clinical experience is concentrated in helping people navigate and recover from:

    • Relational & Childhood Trauma: Childhood abuse, emotional or physical neglect, and early attachment wounds.

    • Violations of Trust & Safety: Complex betrayals of trust, including organized scams, institutional harm, and spiritual or religious trauma.

    • Identity & Gender-Based Harm: Harms based on gender or sexuality, including harassment, discrimination, sexual trauma, assault, and intimate partner violence (IPV).

    In addition, I am accustomed to helping clients process the complex symptoms and life challenges that are adjacent to these experiences, such as:

    • Somatic & Physical Effects: Chronic pain, tension, and unexplained somatic symptoms.

    • Post-Traumatic Stress: Persistent hypervigilance, emotional distress, intrusive flashbacks or re-experiencing, low self-esteem, and avoidance.

    • Deep Loss: The unique, often unacknowledged grief that comes from a loss of identity, community, or fundamental safety.

    Ultimately, my approach focuses on reclaiming your self-trust, personal empowerment, agency, and inner safety.

  • A typical session is a fluid, low-pressure conversation where we explore whatever is currently coming up for you.

    We may explore relationship patterns, emotions, thoughts, or somatic (body-based) sensations that arise during the conversation. My role is to offer a steady presence, provide gentle observations, and ask questions to support reconnection to your own voice and inner world, while also keeping in mind your personal goals and overall hopes for therapy.

  • While I actively offer guidance during our sessions, my approach is non-directive. This means the questions, insights, and reflections I offer are never meant to dictate your actions, but are instead intended to help you slow down and reconnect with your own inner voice and wisdom.

    I aim to provide a careful balance: enough collaborative guidance so that you feel empowered to set your own agenda and identify your own focus for the session, alongside a deep sense of therapeutic containment and steady presence from me.

  • The overall duration of therapy is completely unique to you and depends on your personal goals, the complexity of what you wish to address, and your own sense of when your work feels "complete."

    While I am fully open to short-term, focused work, the nature of chronic stress and complex trauma means that most of my clients choose to work with me on a longer-term basis.

  • My practice is guided by a deep commitment to humanizing, respectful care. The pillars that ground my work include:

    • Compassion & Acceptance: Offering a non-judgemental, non-blaming, empathetic, and active presence, and welcoming you as you are.

    • Attunement & Pacing: Tuning into what is said and unsaid so that therapy moves at a speed that respects your capacity and readiness.

    • Autonomy & Collaboration: Recognizing that you are the expert on your own life, nurturing your agency, and building a working partnership dedicated to your recovery.

    • Respect & Dignity: Treating your boundaries, stories, and lived experiences with the utmost care and confidentiality.

  • No, you do not. Sharing the details of your trauma is not necessary for deep healing, and it is never forced upon you. While you may choose to disclose pieces of your history to help us build context and understanding, the level of detail and depth of disclosure is always on your terms.

    Before addressing trauma, my role is to help you build inner safety first. We can work directly with how trauma is currently showing up in your body, beliefs, emotions, and relationships today, without reliving the past in detail. The approach I use focuses largely in the here-and-now, supporting emotional regulation, containment, meaning-making, and deepened awareness of your inner world.

    If and when you decide to explore the past, we will do so in a way that helps you feel supported in processing or moving through the emotional remnants of those experiences (we do not stay there).

  • I approach painful experiences such as grief and trauma with the fundamental understanding that our job is not to “fix” what happened, but to build your capacity to process those experiences and integrate them into your story with compassion and understanding. Together, we focus on how you can gradually lighten the heavy weight of what you’ve been carrying.

    The exact combination of therapeutic tools and pacing we use is completely unique to you. Part of my role in our sessions is to share insights that help demystify the recovery process, ensuring you feel fully informed and clear about what to expect as therapy progresses.

  • Yes. To ensure you receive the safest and most effective support, it is important to recognize when my therapeutic style might not align with your current needs.

    My gentle, non-directive, and trauma-informed approach may not be well-suited for someone who is seeking advice, quick fixes, or direct input regarding what they should do or how they should heal.

  • In my experience, "knowing" you are ready is rarely about being 100% certain. Instead, you may feel willing to try when you sense that you have enough inner capacity, external security, and therapeutic support.

    Here are two things to keep in mind about this process:

    First, you do not need to be ready to dive into trauma work as soon as you start therapy. Good trauma recovery happens in phases, and we will spend as much time as you need focusing on safety, stabilization, and building a solid foundation of trust first.

    Second, addressing trauma is a dynamic and fully supported process. Your response to the work will guide our pacing. We are always free to slow down, pause, and adjust to make sure your best interests and your emotional safety remain prioritized throughout.

  • We include the body in our work because trauma and chronic stress can impact us below the level of our conscious awareness.

    Many people find that while they can intellectually understand why they feel a certain way, their body still reacts with a heightened heart rate, protective muscle tension, a heavy feeling in the gut, or a sense of frozen numbness. Including deeper-held emotions and sensations in the therapeutic conversation helps healing feel complete and sustainable.

  • Yes. While Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is well known for treating single, isolated incidents, it is also a profoundly effective tool for addressing complex or repeated traumas such as attachment or relational traumas.

    In my approach, I use standard EMDR alongside Attachment-Focused EMDR (AF-EMDR) to support clients in reducing the distress associated with old wounds. You are welcome to read more about how I use EMDR here.

  • I offer Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT) alongside the other approaches I use because I have met with many clients who experience chronic pain. Chronic pain or persistent somatic discomfort are common effects of repeated stress and trauma.

    Recent developments in neuroscience show us that when our bodies undergo chronic stress, relational trauma, or prolonged periods of feeling unsafe, our brain's internal alarm system can become overly sensitive. It begins to misinterpret normal, safe sensory messages from the body as dangerous, creating a "false alarm" loop that results in real, physical pain. This is known as neuroplastic pain.

    Physical pain and emotional pain speak a very similar language in the nervous system. By integrating PRT into our sessions, we address the root cause of your physical symptoms so you can learn new ways to respond to physical and emotional pain and begin to feel safer in your body.

More EMDR-specific questions

Questions and answers about EMDR therapy, what/whom it is for, and how it works. You are also welcome to visit my EMDR page for an overview of the entire process.

  • EMDR is a therapeutic approach designed to help ease distressing emotions and sensations. It helps us to safely access the current or past sources of those emotions or sensations, and then process them until they become less distressing or no longer distressing.

    People in my practice have sought EMDR for:

    • the ongoing effects of major or minor single-incident traumas or adverse experiences

    • the ongoing effects of repeated, complex traumas or adverse experiences

    • phobias, such as fear of flying

    • the ongoing effects of stressful or traumatic experiences that are now exacerbating chronic pain or persistent somatic symptoms

  • BLS activates the brain’s information processing system by using a gentle back-and-forth action. This system is a natural part of our everyday lives, as our brain is always processing things. When this system becomes disrupted by trauma or stress, applying BLS is a way to facilitate the brain’s natural processing capacity.

    In EMDR, BLS can be done in a few different ways. Clients choose between (or apply a combination of):

    • Eye movements: following the therapist’s hands or back-and-forth lights with your eyes.

    • Tactile: self-tapping shoulders or legs, or holding a tactile device that applies a gentle tapping sensation.

    • Audio: listening to alternating tones through headphones.

    Your therapist supports you in finding the rhythm, length, and speed of BLS that best supports the activation of your brain’s information processing system.

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